Internet: The Dating fiasco

As a single woman in the twenty first century dating should come easy with myspace and twitter facebook etc. Not true cause in reality looking to a computer to find love is quite silly and to be honest i was one of those people tip toeing on the idea of internet dating. I actually met a couple of people threw the internet never met in person becauase honestly something just aint right about it. Can't trust internet when it comes to people, becuase the internet allows a person to create an alternate reality of who they really are. Case in point nine times that person that says there a single person on myspace or facebook may have a someone in there life i know you say well shema your status is single, and i'll say yes true indeed. They want to meet you and come stright to your house thats a no no i don't care how long how you and that person been comuincating threw the internet. first meeting not at the house don't do it for a number a reasons: Home is a personal space and before you get involved with someone you gotta first be comfortable with them. Two if stay keep insisting on coming to your house and not theres or don't want to meet up with somewhere move on.....

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FrontwayDesigns said…
here's my support.....

Being a former Single Guy in the twenty first century, i disagree with you, everything that you can lie about on myspace, facebook, twitter you can do in person especially all the things you mentioned, all the internet does is for the time being is hind ur physical appearance

he/she can still lie about there martial status to ur face, the intenet doesnt change that. As you have seen, ppl have always lied...Its just another way to lie about it...

now ppl meeting you at ur place, thats unsafe...espcially for the first time....

you also said "Can't trust internet when it comes to people"
well truth be told you cant trust the internet at all...really any media outlet

In my opinion looking for someone to vibe with by way of the internet is not bad......its actually easier then the bar, nite club and where ever else ppl meet potential daters...i feel it makes it easier to talk to the opposite sex, especially if ur shy like me..

you can learn someones craziness before meeting them....and deciding then and there if you want to move forward...

i think dating online and just meeting ppl have just as many dangers as each other...ppl like Jeffery Dahmer are examples of meeting ppl in person na you can still get you eaten.....so either way some, u meet a nigga online or happen to meet a nigga on the bus can still be dangerous....

and if vibing wit that person online becomes more then, good for you....aint nothing wrong wit that,
as technology advances so should meeting and greeting ppl...

dont hate on interent connections....